Ryan was catching flights, not feelings—Until one bold decision turned dating into soul deep exploration.

From the raw, street-smart swag of Illinois to the creole-soaked soul of Louisiana, every man she met held up a mirror. Through laughter, heartbreak, and quiet revelations, she didn’t just learn about them—she uncovered parts of herself she’d never fully seen.

What started as a casual experiment became a spiritual awakening.

City by city, story by story, Ryan shed old versions of herself. Some men brought light. Others unearthed her shadows. Each encounter peeled back a layer, revealing a deeper truth: she wasn’t just dating—she was becoming.

Dating by Region: A Journey of Self-Discovery is not just about men or maps. It is a poetic memoir of love, loss, and coming home to yourself. It’s for the woman who’s unraveled and rebuilt. Who still loves with intention. Who has learned that every detour carries wisdom—and sometimes, the love we’re chasing is our own.